I don't know whether my commitment to my marriage is a good thing or bad thing right now.
It's been years since I have loved my wife. I still provide, support emotionaly, and I'm faithful to, but there are things that we cannot overcome anymore I think. I'm not going to get into you all over the grimey details. There's obviously a lot of hurt, betrayal, and other backstory, but I'm not here for a counseling session or for a fix of the marriage. My dilemma is I have a very strong set of principles that I live my life by, one of them being loyalty. I made a vow to be with her for the rest of my life, in good or bad. and so I feel like if I left and filed for divorce I would be breaking that commitment and breaking my word to her. So which would be worse? Filing for divorce and leaving someone that I committed my life too? Or staying in a relationship where we're both miserable at this point, solely on principle.