am i wrong to set boundaries after my ex-friend messaged me?
so my ex friend and i broke up last year (she blocked on everything without a word why). my last official message to her was sent a month after we broke up (wishing her well) but she ignored it and i never reached out after that.
fast forward to like last month, she reached out to me through instagram saying some weird jokes and saying how i was obssessed with her. but she sent it then she blocked me. i didnt really pay any mind. she then unblocked me a while back (i think to see if i would respond) but i never did. she messaged me again asking me how i was, but she blocked me again so i couldnt respond.
at this point i was kinda frustruated that she wanted to message me but not have a conversation. she unblocked me again like a week later and i sent her this "hey, i dont know if you are serious or not but this pattern of contacting me and then blocking is weird. i genuinely wish you well but please leave me alone." and she blocked me after.
part of me kinda regrets for being harsh but i dont like that she has access to me whenever she feels and also not apologize or be civil in any way. idk what to do and feel conflicted...