the "fair maiden" delusion
So basically when some (not all) young men join the OCA or Russian Orthodox Church there seems to be some kind of unspoken hope that they would find a beautiful girl in a veil or headscarf, soft spoken, Russian or something, fair, and devout. The hilarious part is that there seems not to be a single woman who meets their criteria. They hope to see a fair maiden praying quietly and fully devout - but then they end up being band members, granddaughters, or just normal people. It's like chasing a unicorn. Have any of you ever seen this happen?
Edit: The hilarious part is that I am the only "eligible" woman from 20-24 years old in the whole ROCOR Bay Area, and I have a boyfriend. XD