Why in the world would a doctor and nurse tell me it was unnecessary to disclose GHSV1???
I sure would’ve liked a choice in NOT having it.
Also why didn’t they teach this stuff in sex ed?? I am VERY educated. But genuinely never knew you could get GHSV1 from oral sex. Or in my case SA.
I genuinely can’t believe that people want children.
It’s sounds horrific to me in every which way.
As a 30yo F, I am EXHAUSTED with the men and the dating culture. Every single man wants to have kids. I think it’s a trap. I think it’s a humiliation ritual. You cannot convince me otherwise. Many women in my life have gotten pregnant, married, cheated on with four kids and a ruined body. Completely miserable in every aspect of life with no career, no financial freedom, no freedom in general.
It’s a trap & you will be miserable. I’m on a subreddit with people being honest about how much they hate being parents. Thousands and thousands. It’s insane.
Even my close friend who desperately wanted her big family and struggled immensely with infertility - she is SO aged, SO exhausted and SO broke. Over $80k in cc debt with 5 kids.
As someone who was just SA’d, my Mirena was the only reason I didn’t had to choose between life or death for an unborn child. WOOF.
I was raped while unconscious and he also performed oral sex on me with a cold sore on his mouth.
I am 30F and have always walked the straight and narrow with my sex life. Only with serious relationships. Always tested before and after. Always clean. Always responsible.
I was taken advantage of when I was intoxicated with someone I met two weeks prior.
My life truly feels over and I don’t want to be here anymore. He gave me GHSV1 and I had an outbreak. It was so traumatizing.
Who is going to want to have sex with me now? Or be with me? 😭 this is the worst thing that ever happened to me.