u/MysticalWolf918

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I love my bf so much I wish he was here

I(21f) met my bf(22m) on a video game called Vrchat. It was by chance cause I only went on that game for around 10 minutes cause I'm really bad at starting conversations and I wanted to see what all the weird stuff that happens in that game plus look at pretty worlds. I was about to leave til he popped up with a hello. Ever since that day, we've never had a day where we didn't text or call each other. We took precautions and showed what we looked like within the first week. After meeting, we only went to vrchat for the movie world. We'd always be playing videogames with eachother, then some days we'd play completely diff games from eachother while in call. 4 months later he said he liked me and we became what ppl call "edaters". He's genuinely the best man I could ask for. Why does he have to be halfway across the US..

He's patient, understanding, kind, caring, and he always advocates for good communication. We've never had bad arguments. The only time he'd get upset were over small things but we always talked about it right away and apologize to each other when we know we are in the wrong. He's not the type to raise his voice or get super angry. We've both told each other our deepest emotions and it really solidified my love for him. He'd comfort me with wise words and listen to everything I would have to say about my life. Of course I'd do the exact same for him cause he's the man I want to be there for through all of his thickest tough days.

We met irl for the first time in March of this year after 1 year and a month of "edating" and he was the same amazing man I met on a video game. It was so bizarre seeing him right in front of me. I found the man of my dreams on a videogame with a bad rep like HOWW. He doesn't do any of that weird stuff I've seen about that game (thank god). I never thought my love language would be touch but we were cuddling most of the time he was here with me. I MISS HIM SO MUCH AHH. I just want to live with him already but we are both working on ourselves to be able to afford living with each other one day. He has the same thoughts too, its just realistically gonna take time until things happen.

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