u/MysticMind89

Ethel Cain & Transgender Bodies as Art - The Bridgette Empire, Youtube
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Ethel Cain & Transgender Bodies as Art - The Bridgette Empire, Youtube

Brigette makes a brilliant video about how trans people's bodies are portrayed in art, and how nudity is presented through the lens of textile cis-hetero Patriarchy. This is why we as nudists need to be conscious and accept trans people. Because they deserve to be respected and love their bodies like anyone else!

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u/MysticMind89 — 2 hours ago

AuDHD vs. Choice Anxiety and Over-Spending on books

Something I'm seeing more and more recently is that choice anxiety makes me frequently over-spend on books, simply because my brain is so random in which books it will hook on to. I'm an avid reader, I do so all the time on public transport, and have a particular love sapphic and trans-inclusive romantacy novels, in addition to Warhammer 40K and even some Terry Pratchett from time to time. The problem is, often it'll be a crapshoot if I can become fixated on a book or not.

I'll get exited by the premise, buy the book... along with two or three others I want, then when I try and start it, by brain says "No" and makes me fixate on a different book from my backlog. Or I have to immediately buy something else because I'm craving a very specific experience.

For instance, I finally got done reading a Warhammer 40K novel, which I found to be a slog. I'd already dropped it once in favour of a pre-ordered self-help book on Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria, and even then I couldn't stop myself from buying a different sapphic fantasy book based around Greek mythology which I'd been eyeing for a while...

..only to find that it's a contemporary setting, and therefore my brain rejects the fixation because it wasn't what I expected from the description. I was going to go back to a book that's been sitting on my shelf for months, but there's a newly released book that I'd eyed in Waterstones, which is now my current reading fixation.

I have almost an entire shelf of unread books that sounded appealing, but for one reason or another, I just could not latch onto. There doesn't even need to be a reason, just that trying to read them feels like trying to swim upstream.

Does anyone else have this problem? Have you or anyone you know found a way to get around this which doesn't involve constantly spending extra on new books?

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u/MysticMind89 — 5 days ago