u/MysteriousWallaby631

My boyfriend and I are new to swinging. We love the idea of swinging and playing with others. However, I feel he may be a little wrapped around the axle about the lifestyle.

What I mean is:

It's always about watching me with other people.

Wanting lifestyle friends to hang out with (not vanilla friends)

Trips that always have to involve a lifestyle club or something along those lines.

I'm very open to it all but at the same time I want us to enjoy each other. I like sex just as much as he does but I don't want our life to revolve around it.

Has anyone else come across this or have any advice?