27M – Can’t stay hard during sex, even with Viagra. Is this porn-related or something else?
About me 5 8 165 lbs I lift and do cardio every single day
Hey everyone, looking for some honest advice because this has been stressing me out for a while.
I’m 27 and lost my virginity last year. Since then, I’ve had a recurring issue where I either can’t get fully hard during sex, or I do get hard but lose it after a minute or two—especially during penetration. Usually ends with the girl finishing me off with a hand job.
I went to a doctor and was prescribed Viagra (tried both 25mg and 100mg). It definitely helps me get hard initially, but I still lose the erection during sex, which is confusing.
Some other context:
I’ve been watching porn regularly for years and currently masturbate pretty much every day
I feel like I’m used to a certain type of stimulation (probably more intense than real sex)
I also catch myself thinking during sex like “don’t lose it” which probably doesn’t help
Another thing is I feel like real sex doesn’t match what I’m used to seeing in porn, and I’m wondering if that’s affecting my arousal.
So I guess my questions are:
Could this be porn-induced ED or something mental rather than physical?
Has anyone gone through something similar and fixed it?
Should I stop porn/masturbation completely for a while?
Why would Viagra work at first but not keep me hard?
Appreciate any advice or experiences. This has been pretty frustrating and I want to figure it out.