I'm a content creator on Pinterest and I noticed most of my recent pins get hidden for absolutely no reason. I maybe think it's the text so I hide it (because Pinterest will censor anything) it works, but a few hours later Pinterest hides it AGAIN. What is going on and what did I do?. Is it because of the blue filter I'm using? The symbols? I'm so lost.
I know MBTI cannot really tell you which types are the best / worst in terms of communication and relationships, but honestly I can relate to Fe / Si blindness, etc.
I was friends with a guy who I believed was an ENFJ, and at first it worked out. We were joking around, and he was basically the more social one. Disclaimer, I'm not saying all ENFJs are like that, we were pretty young, and I also had some confidence issues or setting boundaries. He said he was an introvert but was still social with pretty much everybody. (It made me kind of jealous too, I can't lie) He would almost always talk in friends groups I didn't know, and I just had to sit here and wait. Whenever I was feeling down or annoyed, he would always try to cheer me up, which just made me uncomfortable and smile nervously. He had a habit of being weirdly caring but in a parent way? Sometimes it was even a little creepy because just because I don't smile doesn't mean I'm being annoyed. The moment we didn't talk to eachother anymore was when I complained about him looking happier when he was with more extroverted people (Fe blindness because I can't just personally switch my 'personality' with different people, or just very subtly) and he said he felt more himself with me. But I didn't feel myself with him. I thought that he was fake most of the time, and didn't truly care about me. I made mistakes too like not being honest enough about my boundaries, and was almost exhausted trying to keep up with his pace. I think it would have worked out if both of us tried to work on the communication part. Forgot to mention that he said I was too closed-off. I took it personally because I was just tired with him back then but now I know why he said that. I don't know why but I couldn't bring myself to fully trust him. Also, his way of pleasing straight up rude people, or people he insulted in the past behind their backs made me feel like he was hypocritical. He didn't care about his health, and once said "i'm only getting help if i'm bleeding really bad." He should have cared about his own health instead of asking everyone else if they're okay.