u/Mormz__

Just a gentle reminder for us all.

We are all Human which means we are full of soo much. So many emotions so many memories so many dreams so many fears. Just because we have ADHD shouldn’t mean we should feel any different than our neurotypical counterparts. Yes we may feel different than others our experience in life may also differ but again is that what in essence makes us humans. I have been there in the moments of questioning myself. Always thinking to myself “ I dont know who I am.” However with time and reflection I realised That question doesn’t need a definite answer. Every social interaction may give us a different answer. Some may think we are too much or arrogant. Some may think we are kind hearted and people pleasers. What matters for me and something I want to share is. As long as you try and do good towards yourself and towards others then It doesn’t really matter does it? Every single one of us is an individual yes we as a community share similar experiences but again isn’t that what being human is. I hope this message is a gentle reminder that in this unpredictable world we are all going through our own journey of life, of self discovery, of love or of dealing with a negative experience. Its not easy I still fall into negativity but having a fall, taking time to get back up is okay and it will always be okay. I never had another ADHDer to speak to and at the age of 25 I am finally beginning to be more positive about my ADHD and accepting that actually why should i think i am any different than neurotypicals. we all have something to give to this world and we all deserve to feel happy and loved as we are not as the masked individual we curated. Happy Friday!

P.s. not sure if this even made sense but felt the need to share 😂

We are all Human which means we are full of soo much. So many emotions so many memories so many dreams so many fears. Just because we have ADHD shouldn’t mean we should feel any different than our neurotypical counterparts. Yes we may feel different than others our experience in life may also differ but again is that what in essence makes us humans. I have been there in the moments of questioning myself. Always thinking to myself “ I dont know who I am.” However with time and reflection I realised That question doesn’t need a definite answer. Every social interaction may give us a different answer. Some may think we are too much or arrogant. Some may think we are kind hearted and people pleasers. What matters for me and something I want to share is. As long as you try and do good towards yourself and towards others then It doesn’t really matter does it? Every single one of us is an individual yes we as a community share similar experiences but again isn’t that what being human is. I hope this message is a gentle reminder that in this unpredictable world we are all going through our own journey of life, of self discovery, of love or of dealing with a negative experience. Its not easy I still fall into negativity but having a fall, taking time to get back up is okay and it will always be okay. I never had another ADHDer to speak to and at the age of 25 I am finally beginning to be more positive about my ADHD and accepting that actually why should i think i am any different than neurotypicals. we all have something to give to this world and we all deserve to feel happy and loved as we are not as the masked individual we curated. Happy Friday!

P.s. not sure if this even made sense but felt the need to share 😂

Just know that everyday or moment that feels heavy gives us a choice. We either let the moment define us or we allow ourselves to feel our emotions freely and once we start feeling up to it we decide whats next. Good days come just as much as bad ones. sometimes the bad lasts longer and we begin to think we deserve this we wont ever be okay things wont ever get better. However, thats is not case. Sometimes we just need a gentle reminder. Its not always easy especially with the world we live in today. if you are kind to others why cant you be kind to yourself. it wont happen overnight but one small, very small, step is all you need.

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Just know that everyday or moment that feels heavy gives us a choice. We either let the moment define us or we allow ourselves to feel our emotions freely and once we start feeling up to it we decide whats next. Good days come just as much as bad ones. sometimes the bad lasts longer and we begin to think we deserve this we wont ever be okay things wont ever get better. However, thats is not case. Sometimes we just need a gentle reminder. Its not always easy especially with the world we live in today. if you are kind to others why cant you be kind to yourself. it wont happen overnight but one small, very small, step is all you need.

Just know that everyday or moment that feels heavy gives us a choice. We either let the moment define us or we allow ourselves to feel our emotions freely and once we start feeling up to it we decide whats next. Good days come just as much as bad ones. sometimes the bad lasts longer and we begin to think we deserve this we wont ever be okay things wont ever get better. However, thats is not case. Sometimes we just need a gentle reminder. Its not always easy especially with the world we live in today. if you are kind to others why cant you be kind to yourself. it wont happen overnight but one small, very small, step is all you need.