I just read that most men fantasise about attractive women they see while married...
I mean i guess having attraction toward attractive stranger is normal like seeing them and thinking damn this girl is pretty im bi so i see many girlies attractive but
I usually dont think anything sexual at all. I just think shes pretty and I forget about her.
I read that many of them even while married fantasise about strangers or coworkers or celebrities even during intimate moments with their lover...
And that they have crushes too?
I get it if its just involuntarily body reaction or sth but still if they actually fantasise about someone else??
I guess being a helpless romantic virgin made me think that most people are only attracted sexually to their lover...
They say that they would never react on it I mean yeah... but these thoughts alone kinda make me sad. Which is stupid I know XDD
Like what if im hugging my lover and he thinks of his hot coworker?
Maybe I should get therapy or stay single forever...