u/MongooseCharacter694

Im 100% out and I will never pretend to believe unless there’s a gun to my head. My wife wants to be present for our son’s temple marriage. She is, I would say, 80% out of the church but still has moments of belief.

She wants to renew her temple recommend and has been paying a few hundred dollars to the church. Does anyone have any advice on how to manage the temple recommend interview to ensure she gets her recommend? Do they actually look at tithing payment histories?

I was a TBM and faithful and never thought about this stuff before. Now, I don’t know if they check for tithing or just take your word for it.