Genuine Lavender Marriage
You might’ve seen my posts before so this will be my last attempt 😂
31M. From UK but hopefully moving to Canada this summer time isA (currently based in Tokyo for a short while)
Looking for a practicing spouse who is gay/asexual or hetero but happy to be with someone with these tendencies; <30 years (ideally Arabic speaking - not essential); based in Canada/ US or citizen of country on IEC Canada list (this is as I won’t be able to sponsor anyone if I move there as not Canadian) and be willing to move to Canada (for a few years)
I would say I’m mostly SSA but definitely also have OSA. I have never acted on my SSA and hoping to find a partner who has not either.
Financially stable. Masculine and straight passing. Really enjoy travelling.
I would really love to have a marriage based on honesty, respect and companionship without having to hide SSA. It would be amazing to have our own children. This would be a genuine marriage not a lavender marriage where each partner has same sex relations on the side. Hoping to grow together for this life and the next.
Of course sexual orientation isn’t enough to keep a marriage going (as very clearly evident from our fellow straight Muslims) so if the below applies to you - please drop a message and hopefully if there’s a connection we can take it from there!
Have had a few people kindly message, as not to waste anyone's time. A polite request, please do not message if:
You consider yourself 'non-practicing' (I am aware this means different things to different people but for example minimum 5 daily prayers, fast)(Being hijabi or not is not a big deal for me)
Looking for a cover-up type arrangement
You are not interested in having children through natural means.
If this post resonates with you please reach out!
Edit - if this is still up please don’t hesitate to message