Hi everyone,
I have a female friend with AuDHD and I try to educate myself and understand the struggles. She doesn't feel like talking about it that much, because I can get a little bit too curious about it. That's why I'm here.
We are really good friends, but confined to online activities due to distance. I've tried multiple times to offer some activities, but it feels like I can only capture her attention through some video games, she's fixated on. She recently started an online relationship with a friend I introduced her to and now she's basically no longer available for anything. She says I only need to buy the same games, she's obsessed with and then I'd get more of her time. Now my problem is, I'm on a tight budget and I can't follow her in every game she likes. I'm really sad about it, but after some chats about it, I don't think she's getting it.
Do you have any idea, how I could improve the situation for her or make it more comfortable to hang out with me again? She claims, I didn't do anything wrong, but she's my only friend and we haven't done any activity for over a month now.