Bf speaks to other girl friend
Hey! So me (23F) and my bf (23M) has been together for 2 years now. I can say that I absolutely trust him, but on the other hand, I am really afraid of cheating, because my parents got divorced (bc of cheating) and my previous bf also did this to me.
So the thing is that I saw on my boyfriends phone that he has texted a girl, and that message was at the top. No, I wasn’t checking my bf’s phone without asking, he was just using it and I saw it. That girl is one of his friends, they know each other before we got together, but they arent best friends at all, they are just from the same friend group. And you know, when we were in this friend group, I always felt that something was off, like if the girl liked my bf. I dont know if it is true, I just had that feeling. There are other girls in the group but I never felt that for them.
And yeah, I dont know if that would be weird if I asked my bf if they are talking to each other, personally I think that it doesn’t fit in a relationship when you talk to other girls daily. If they would know each other since childhood for eg. that would be ok if they were talking, but that’s not the case. And I just don’t understand why they are talking if they aren’t that really good friends, they are just from the same friend group really.
So my question is that am I insane, or that would be a totally normal question for my bf, if they are talking regularly?
Thanks for reading this!