u/Midlifememoirs

Ladies, genuine question.

After how many questions or how long of a conversation do you usually exchange phone numbers with someone from a dating app?

I feel like a lot of guys ask for WhatsApp or a phone number almost immediately. Like… we’ve barely said anything. Maybe three questions total and two of them are “what are you doing right now?”

Just because I swiped right doesn’t mean I already like you. It just means I’m open to getting to know you.

To me, the chat is the stage where we’re supposed to figure out if there’s even basic chemistry or conversation. If we’ve barely talked, moving to WhatsApp feels strange.

Curious what other women do.

Do you wait until there’s an actual conversation going?

Or do you exchange numbers pretty quickly?

I’m out here trying to date and attract a masculine man, so I’m tapping into my feminine side. The other day, a guy offered to hold the door. I didn’t need to leave, but I said yes—and ended up awkwardly wandering outside like, ‘Well, I guess I live here now!’ What’s the funniest thing that’s happened to you while trying to ‘be more feminine’?