Just found out my wife has been recording me since she met with a lawyer
My wife and I are working towards divorce. She got a consultation last week and when I picked up her phone yesterday, I noticed it was recording. I checked and she has multiple voice recordings of our conversations from the past few days.
I thought her behavior was super weird the night before when we were talking and after she said she was going to take half my 401k, she'd go after the money I put towards my retirement as well. I got frustrated and said "I don't even know why I'm trying." She has this weird shit eating grin on her face and I just walked away.
I don't know what it all means, but I just can't believe this. Last night I took a bottle of scotch up to my office to mourn the loss of my wife. I knew we were getting divorced, but we have young kids. I didn't think that this is what I'd be dealing with. Just disgusted and creeped out.
FWIW I'm 37M and my STBXW is 47F in Missouri. Single consent is legal. Fucking bullshit to be recording in your own house, but I'm confident I didn't say anything crazy. I offered her ~$20,000 as part of spousal support which I'm sure she recorded, but nothings in writing so guessing it's not worth much. After finding all of this, there's no more offering of any support. I'm gladly pay my child support every month, but unless I'm ordered otherwise that's it.