
My mom is a narcissist
I spent the weekend with my mom after not seeing her for a year and a half due to us living in different states. My sister graduated this weekend and she came up for the ceremony and stayed for 5 days. This is the only graduation ceremony she’s attended of all three of her kids graduating college. The entire weekend everything that came out of her mouth was a comment about herself or just an observation about something that was happening. My boyfriend noticed it too. She didn’t ask me or my sister anything about what’s been going on in our lives or how we’ve been. I barely talk to her as is so we haven’t spoken on the phone in months either and when she texts me it’s usually her telling me about something she’s doing at work or a picture of herself. Yesterday she made a joke when I was on the phone with my sister about me “being her mom” after I made a suggestion that my sister take her to the airport early before she has to work so my mom wouldn’t need to spend $50 on an uber. I don’t want to parent my parent and at this point I’ve accepted that I’ll never have a meaningful relationship with her. The cherry on top was last night I got this text and I truly don’t know how to respond.