u/Meredith-yng

My mom is a narcissist

My mom is a narcissist

I spent the weekend with my mom after not seeing her for a year and a half due to us living in different states. My sister graduated this weekend and she came up for the ceremony and stayed for 5 days. This is the only graduation ceremony she’s attended of all three of her kids graduating college. The entire weekend everything that came out of her mouth was a comment about herself or just an observation about something that was happening. My boyfriend noticed it too. She didn’t ask me or my sister anything about what’s been going on in our lives or how we’ve been. I barely talk to her as is so we haven’t spoken on the phone in months either and when she texts me it’s usually her telling me about something she’s doing at work or a picture of herself. Yesterday she made a joke when I was on the phone with my sister about me “being her mom” after I made a suggestion that my sister take her to the airport early before she has to work so my mom wouldn’t need to spend $50 on an uber. I don’t want to parent my parent and at this point I’ve accepted that I’ll never have a meaningful relationship with her. The cherry on top was last night I got this text and I truly don’t know how to respond.

u/Meredith-yng — 1 day ago

I recently got an old sticker vending machine that I’m refurbishing and these locks came with it but with no keys. I want to either get new locks like this or find a way to get a key made for them but I can’t figure out what I should search for these locks. I forgot to take a picture of the back but it’s a threaded hole and can add a picture later when I’m home if needed. Thank you in advance!

u/Meredith-yng — 13 days ago

Hi! I’m posting on behalf of a friend of mine who’s been apartment hunting and having a really hard time. She’s looking for a studio apartment or one bedroom in astoria for max $2500 and has a really loose move in time! She’s hoping anytime by the end of august. If there’s anyone moving anytime soon out of an apartment that sounds like a good fit I would love to talk!

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u/Meredith-yng — 15 days ago

Hi! I’m posting on behalf of a friend of mine who’s been apartment hunting and having a really hard time. She’s looking for a studio apartment or one bedroom in astoria for max $2500 and has a really loose move in time! She’s hoping anytime by the end of august. If there’s anyone moving anytime soon out of an apartment that sounds like a good fit I would love to talk!

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u/Meredith-yng — 15 days ago
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Hi all. I filed my taxes with H&R Block in early March. I owed NYS around $200 and got a refund back NJ. I set up direct deposit and payment and received the refund but still haven’t been charged for my taxes owed to NYS. I reached out to H&R after a few days past tax day and they said sometimes it takes a few days to process and that I’m all good. Should I be concerned? A few days sure but we’re nearing two weeks now. I just don’t want this to come bite me later for a late payment.

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u/Meredith-yng — 17 days ago