u/Mercias_Light

Hello,

I'm 26f in the UK with £12,000 of debt between a consolidation loan and credit card. I keep racking up more because my wage is so low that I end the month in the negative. I'm about to graduate from my undergraduate in psychology (2:2) in summer. I've got 5+ of senior healthcare administration, 10+ years of customer service experience. I was wanting to go into EMHP work but the pay is not much different.

I was hoping somebody might have career advice for something I could try my luck at shuffling into which tends to may more and pay quickly

Hi everyone :)

I'm formally diagnosed with (quiet) BPD. I find having received my diagnosed incredibly helpful - it positively affects how I understand myself and interact with the world. I can say firmly that it is a deeply positive thing for me, and has had a substantial positive effect on my experience of life.

I regulate far better, and feel my emotions in a controlled and logical manner since diagnosis. I very rarely struggle with doing so these days.

The one thing I have found myself still struggling with is the sort of experience of not believing that there is no problem when I'm being told that is the case.

Recently I had a bad few days due to some external stress and I butt heads a little with the guy I'm seeing. He confirmed repeatedly that nothing was wrong afterwards, but I needed routine reassurance for days after the fact, until it created a bit of distance. I struggle to believe that this could possibly be the case and feel a bit afraid of doing so, in case I'm believing a lie?

Does anyone have any advice for overcoming this and being more settled in letting issues you cause go?