u/Meowtuitive

I had what felt like one of the best dates ever

But I feel confused, I thought we got along really well, I never felt like myself feel so comfortable and let my guard down so much before, like she made me feel like I could do that with her...and I thought she really liked the date too I mean I saw her smiling and we both were laughing but maybe she just meant she feels no romantic attraction to me? I asked her if she would want to do this again after the date (as in go on a second one) and she said she wasn't sure that she would get back to me which she just did..We are both asexual too but this is what she said "Hey so I’ve had some time to think and I don’t thing we really match, the connection was just not there for me but I really appreciate your time and thank you for for today, it was really nice meeting you and I hope your days are filled with sunshine" So I sent a message back saying that I hope hers are too and asking if she would be okay with being friends Because I really enjoyed talking to her and hanging out with her

but I'm scared she means in general when she says no connection...which surely not? like she had to atleast like- thought we would make good friends? I'm just, she'd make a really good friend and I don't have any ace friends or any for that matter 😔