I (19F) have been together with my bf (20m) for two years, he has this friend who he hasn't known for long and lives across the world which I am okay with. Until they really started talking and my boyfriend started deleting chats with this guy. I got upset and asked him not to do it. He agreed but did it anyways many many times.He told his friend about that and was talking shit about me and let his friend disrespect me when all I asked was not to delete texts because he absolutely would hate it if I did that to him. He also hid playing on the Vr (VRChat) with this friend. My bf has a horrible history with the Vr doing weird shit. So I don't trust him because he still has all those girls added and ex's on this account. So I didn't feel comfortable with him playing until he removed them. His friend apologized but I asked to see it, but he deleted the chats then he showed me other texts with him and his friend was disrespecting me once again calling me rude names. So I told my boyfriend you can stay friends with this guy or lose me. Because I'm not going to be disrespected by my bf or his friend.
Am I wrong for this? I really need help.