u/MeowMeow2023

So we have been together for 1 year and we are long distance right now and probably will be for at least a year. I am studying abroad and she is trying to enroll for university. She has a very conservative family and they are really shit. She has been trying to enroll for a few years right now and says she doesnt now if she will enroll this year and i say to her thtat she must study harder. But she says that she cant force herself and that she doesnt want to and that it is easier to kill herself. She has some psychologic problems (borderline disorder for example) and says that whenever she tries to study she gets anxious and cant force herself and i cant give her proper advice so please help me