Should a person stay positive and good-hearted, or become realistic after understanding the dark truths of life?
As a kid I was innocent and positive, but later on exposure to dark realities and other real life experiences in school, city life and college slowly changed the way I see the world. Over time I became more cynical and started noticing the darker side of people, relationships and society.
Now I genuinely feel confused between two ways of living:
Should a person stay positive, kind and hopeful even if reality is harsh? Or is it better to fully accept the dark truths of life and become more practical, emotionally hard and “realistic”?
Sometimes positivity feels naive, but cynicism feels mentally exhausting too.
What do you guys honestly think?