u/Mental-Intention-355

My fiancé and I have been together for about a year and a half now. During that time, he got a tattoo of my name right away, took me on shopping trips, and spoiled me with gifts. Now, I don’t get any of that. He barely spends time with me ,he mostly plays video games with his friends or hangs out with them for hours. I’ve brought it up at least 10 times, explaining that I wish our relationship were different and that I’d like him to pay more attention to me. He’s never affectionate unless it’s about sex. We probably kiss once every three or four days, and forget about cuddling or holding hands that’s nonexistent. I don’t understand what I can do to fix things because I’m pretty much over it at this point. He’s great to talk to and laugh with, but it often feels like we’re just friends with benefits. Is this something that can be changed?