u/Mental-Emu-7512

I see a lot of people calling other partners “sides”

I don’t understand this way of thinking

ENM. 2 years

Stayed out of the space to heal my trauma and to come In with a clear ,communicative mindset

I’ve noticed that a lot of the post here are reflecting the same thing.

Feeling discarded,This has been undermined by the term”NRE” i understand nre ,but that should never be an excuse to neglect other connections ,I think it needs to be addressed how some ENM spaces are turning into “I don’t want to know this person beyond their genitalia and what they can give me”

Where is the “what can I give in this situation.”

It’s becoming so one dimensional to me

This post is to gauge if my observations have been wrong.

-sage.