She’s always freaking out about small things that I do and gets very defensive about any type of comment that I make. She’s a good gf yeah whatever but it just feels like I’m settling. Sometimes she rolls around on the floor and starts jumping and hides under the bed (I’m serious) because she “feels like I’m mad and I’m not communicating,” and she doesn’t “know what’s in my head.” Why cant a grown woman just talk is beyond me.
We’ve been dating for 3 years but my feelings about her have changed drastically because of what I mentioned before. We’ve talked about it but she just doesn’t seem to change. She also sucks at texting. Sometimes I text her in the morning before work and she doesn’t get back to me until 3 pm, sometimes even 6 but I don’t care anymore about that. She’s also kinda embarrassing to bring to places because she’s always spilling drinks, dropping silverware, and for some reason doesn’t know how to socialize. However, if you give her alcohol she will suddenly act normal.
This is my first long term relationship so I’m very conflicted about what to do. She loves me but I don’t think I love her anymore.