u/Mental-Attention-182

i (23F) have been with my boyfriend (25M) for almost 2 years.
he’s currently working at a company where i have a real chance of getting hired

the issue is that we’d likely be in the same environment daily, and possibly interact professionally (not necessarily same team yet, but there’s overlap)

i’m someone who likes having separation between my personal life and work, and i’m worried about things like:
- seeing each other all the time and losing space
- how to act at work vs in private
- what happens if we argue or if something goes wrong in the relationship

at the same time, it’s a good opportunity career-wise so i don’t want to turn it down without thinking it through properly
for people who’ve been in a similar situation, how did you set boundaries between work and your relationship? and is there anything you wish you had done differently?

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u/Mental-Attention-182 — 9 days ago

thinking of buying this used racket but it’s slightly chipped at the top edge on the left (you can see it in the pics)

is that something to worry about performance/durability wise or is it normal and fine to play with?

don’t wanna spend money and then regret it

u/Mental-Attention-182 — 9 days ago
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been playing padel since september and i improved a lot at the start, but lately i feel like i’ve completely plateaued 😭 like no matter how much i play i’m not actually getting better??

any tips on how to get past this?

(i know coaching would help but it’s kinda expensive so trying to keep that as a last resort lol)

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u/Mental-Attention-182 — 9 days ago
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anyone heard back about uni of bath/KCL postgraduate scholarships yet?
i’ve asked around a few times but haven’t seen anyone get updates.

they said replies would come by may 8 and i’m lowkey stressing 😭

do they usually send them on time or can it be later? i’m an international student so not really sure what to expect

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u/Mental-Attention-182 — 10 days ago