i (23F) have been with my boyfriend (25M) for almost 2 years.
he’s currently working at a company where i have a real chance of getting hired
the issue is that we’d likely be in the same environment daily, and possibly interact professionally (not necessarily same team yet, but there’s overlap)
i’m someone who likes having separation between my personal life and work, and i’m worried about things like:
- seeing each other all the time and losing space
- how to act at work vs in private
- what happens if we argue or if something goes wrong in the relationship
at the same time, it’s a good opportunity career-wise so i don’t want to turn it down without thinking it through properly
for people who’ve been in a similar situation, how did you set boundaries between work and your relationship? and is there anything you wish you had done differently?