u/Menace66666

So i was gonna model them but thats hard and im lazy and none of the websites are easy to do side by side graphs on, but essentially the idea is that there would be two side by side graphs for graphing gender as its experienced by having graph 1's x axis as dominant vs submissive (to separate them from masculinity and femininity alltogether [also referring to personality not sex lmao) y axis is gender identity obvi masc vs fem but the second graph is x=internal expression and y=external expression so this way people can share the same gender identity and there variations in masculinity and femininity are still completely cohesive because we account for the other aspects of gender. And of course most people won't occupy a single point and rather a blob on it, which i accounted for when drawing it for me i also used a frequency heat map type thing to show which areas i tend to occupy more than others. I find this model is remarkably efficient, especially in being able to represent like for example im genderfaer and the difference between genderfae and genderfaer would be that if y1+10=girl/woman identity whereas y1-10=guy/man identity, genderfae in terms of identity would occupy y1=0 through 10 whereas genderfaer would occupy lets say y1=-5 through 10. I hope this model can be standardized in some type of way as I find it's extremely efficient and doesn't invalidate people for expressing gender in ways that other people deem conflicting with their identity. But please do cite me if you decide to use it somewhere because I really like this idea and have been hyperfixated on it for a while so it'd suck if it got big and my obsession meant nothing.

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u/Menace66666 — 9 days ago