u/MembershipCurious811

So, yesterday I went to a birthday party with my 4yo. It was a small party and moms started to talk about their kids being bullied by others. I talked about an experience in which my kid was told to fuck off and die by another girl, which I think is quite serious coming from children that young. A mom asked me this girls name and I said it. Afterwards I felt very bad and I hate myself for talking about a little kid who gods know what kind of life she has. I would not want another mom taking about my kid and saying her name to others in the group. I really want to cry and have been thinking about it for hours. Is there a way I can make the situation better? I feel like a coward because I caved to peer pressure at my almost 36 years. This is not what I want to teach my kid and I didn’t stand for my values…I feel like I threw a kid under the bus. I mean, I could have just talked about the situation without mentioning the name