u/Melodic_Ad3649

I am very new to all of this, especially hookups. Looking for someone to listen, maybe some advice or I don’t know…

The past couple of hookups have not been great. The guys either don’t get hard (this happened twice) or one while I was topping a guy he just stopped and said “I’m not into this today”. It’s getting harder (no pun intended) to not take this all so personally. I know everyone has their “types” and I might not be everyone’s but I am very up front online about how I look. My height and weight are up to date, all my pictures are recent and I’m open about what I consider my flaws. Is this just a string of bad luck? Is it me? Does this happen to most people?