u/MelodicPlan1574

Hello :)

Ive been having issues with the friends I do have and people have been telling me to “get out there more” but I have no idea how to do so.

I have a lot of social anxiety and just anxiety in general and the thought of going up to someone random and talking to them seriously freaks me out. I already have a hard time talking with the people I do know without feeling stupid for stumbling over my words or just saying something flat out stupid cuz I’m nervous.

I’m only asking because I’ll be moving from my hometown soon with my partner and I really don’t want to be stuck at home with no friends.

Hello! I need a little bit of help with saving.

I’m 20 and in college right now. I have $1100 saved up for my tuition for next semester and need about $1000 more. I can clearly save my money well if it’s something that has a deadline.

When I’m out of school and work full time I can only save about $800 before I just completely stop saving all together and then that $800 of savings gets spent.

For more context, I have 2 credit cards… an $800 one and a $1500 one. One has $200 left on it and the other has like $50 on it right now. I’m trying to pay off the $800 one but I’ve stopped for now while I’m saving up my tuition and plan on putting money on it when I’m working full time again.

I also plan to move across the country with my partner but I need at least $32,000 for what we have planned.

Are there any suggestions anyone has that could maybe help me? Any savings tips? I don’t care if they’re crazy or not. I need all the help I can get.

Also, I have a TFSA that I put my tuition into for now but once I learned I could pretty much withdraw whenever, it’s something I still take from when I probably shouldn’t :/