u/Melodic-Tradition-98

Ok so I am extremely behind in my intro to stats class for psychology. I have skipped over half of my stats lectures, and though I’ve done all the homework, I don’t understand ANYTHING. My final is next week, and it’s over hypothesis testing, error and power, and then putting everything we learned from the semester together. I have one week to learn this, and my question is: is this achievable or should I just accept my fate? It’s an intro level stats class for psych, nothing crazy, but still a LOT of information.

Ok, so I’ve been dating my boyfriend for about 10 months. Months 1-3, it was a dream. I felt like I had met my soulmate. We spent every day together and were practically inseparable. He was thoughtful, kind, and even bought/made me little gifts that made him think of me.

But then, we both started college. It’s like the second we got to school, his entire personality, demeanor, etc. just changed overnight. He became less thoughtful, stopped writing me notes and getting me little gifts here and there, and he didn’t even get me anything for my birthday/6 month anniversary/Valentine’s Day without his friends dragging him to the store a day later. He’s still the same funny, outgoing, caring guy, he’s just…different. I constantly remind him about my needs, what I want in a relationship, etc. and for 1-2 weeks, things get better, then they just go back to normal.

Well, now I realize that he’s struggling with an INSANE amount of anxiety, and is currently working on getting medicated. I can tell he’s mentally ill, and part of me wants to stick it out and wait for him to get better. (Of course, I’ve been there for him, cried with him, and gotten him flowers on his tough days.) but I wonder if I’m ever going to receive the same in return. And I’m TIRED. Tired of constantly being a call away, dropping everything to help him, and trying my best to make him feel seen when I feel invisible. I just want to feel special, and I am hoping that medication and therapy helps, but I can’t be entirely sure.

What do I do?