u/Melodic-Tonight-1268

Me (20) (F) and my boyfriend (21) (M) have been together for 4 years and for the most part I’ve been the one to drive, pick him up, drop him off, and take him places because he doesn’t have a car or job. I’ve started to feel more like a caretaker than a girlfriend. Is it wrong for me to start to withhold transportation and to make it less frequent? It’s been a lot of gas money that I take care of and other finances I take care of on top of that. I want to put responsibility onto him because at times I feel like all responsibility is on me, but part of me feels guilt.