flew across the country to see a girl and everything was alright but i just couldn't think fully straight and i was in my head alot and unable to articulate my thoughts as well as i normally can and i dont know why. was overthinking questions and just not fully present or myself. normally im very very confident in myself and have genuinely no trouble meeting people or talking to people but just shut down when it acc mattered to me.
im wondering for any tips to improve this and avoid it in the future. i have experience talking to girls when they pursue me which is way easier but this was the first time i was going for someone so it was just different. i really liked her but probably a lost cause now. so i need to not make the same mistake the next time i really like someone. pls any help.
she's an estp btw and was so amazing genuinely so im like extra upset abt it but its fine cuz now i can figure out what to work on