u/Melodic-Bear-2569

I've been married for almost 20 years and over the last year I've been thinking more and more about divorce.

Although we've tried, we don't seem to be able to resolve arguments well, and have continued to sweep things under the rug. Intimacy is almost non existent, and at times I've questioned how much I trust my partner as there's been some odd behaviours / lies in the past.

There is no cheating or major blow outs, just an ongoing feeling of disconnection.

At what point do I give up? Or should I continue to try? We have children which is a major consideration for me.