u/Medium_Effort2567

Am I crazy?

Hi! 19f and I’ve struggled a bit over the past few years, I’m not sure if it’s anxiety or anything else (never been tested nor gone to therapy as of yet, only school therapist a couple of times). I’m a bit stumped about some stuff I do, I’m anxious in public like a bit more than normal (I struggle talking to people, ordering food, presenting something at school, even talking to my extended family) and it’s impacted me quite a lot, people tell me I just need to grow up but I just can’t do it sometimes? If I’m put on the spot it’s either 1) I do whatever it is fine no issues except shaky voice. Or 2) I cry, full blown break down cry and I can’t stop. I struggle with sleep, I think I have insomnia but I’m yet to be diagnosed with anything. I also do things in a very ordered manner like how I have to have my bladder empty before bed and has to be Vaseline on my lips and eyelids and my hair has to be up in a low ponytail away from any of my face otherwise it’s gonna feel like there’s spiders on my face…. I sound crazy lmao but Its just how I’ve grown up. I never really get tired? I feel like my body runs off adrenaline and can keep going until my body forcefully shuts down or I have to count sheep out loud to myself to sleep because that’s the only thing that blocks out the noise in my head that stops me from sleeping. Is this normal or do I need to go get help? Help please just opinion and advice whenever you can!

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u/Medium_Effort2567 — 5 hours ago

Am I crazy?

Hi! 19f and I’ve struggled a bit over the past few years, I’m not sure if it’s anxiety or anything else (never been tested nor gone to therapy as of yet, only school therapist a couple of times). I’m a bit stumped about some stuff I do, I’m anxious in public like a bit more than normal (I struggle talking to people, ordering food, presenting something at school, even talking to my extended family) and it’s impacted me quite a lot, people tell me I just need to grow up but I just can’t do it sometimes? If I’m put on the spot it’s either 1) I do whatever it is fine no issues except shaky voice. Or 2) I cry, full blown break down cry and I can’t stop. I struggle with sleep, I think I have insomnia but I’m yet to be diagnosed with anything. I also do things in a very ordered manner like how I have to have my bladder empty before bed and has to be Vaseline on my lips and eyelids and my hair has to be up in a low ponytail away from any of my face otherwise it’s gonna feel like there’s spiders on my face…. I sound crazy lmao but Its just how I’ve grown up. I never really get tired? I feel like my body runs off adrenaline and can keep going until my body forcefully shuts down or I have to count sheep out loud to myself to sleep because that’s the only thing that blocks out the noise in my head that stops me from sleeping. Is this normal or do I need to go get help? Help please just opinion and advice whenever you can!

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u/Medium_Effort2567 — 5 hours ago

Am I a bad person for taking a gift card that’s not mine?

Hi 19f here, went to my local shopping centre today after an appointment. While I was there my boyfriend noticed someone dropped a card he thought as a way to litter and get rid of it, I said oh no maybe chase them and ask. As he proceeded to speed walk (it was a bit busy) they were just walking ten times faster. He gives up and comes back and assumes she just used it all and threw it on the ground. He goes to throw it in the trash and I go oh no I’ll keep it then so I just hold it and we leave shortly after and get food.

Just got home and checked the balance, it had the full $50 still loaded on it and I feel horrible but kinda happy at the same time? I mean I just got a free 50 bucks but at the same time did I just steal by accident? It has no name and no account signed up to the card so I really can’t track it back down and we didn’t bother to go to the lost and found on the other side of the shopping centre (at that point we thought it had no value or little value a few bucks at most). I told my mum and she said that’s bad karma to use it but also to get a lottery ticket so I did lmao.

Do I use it? Is that like illegal!?!? Idk what to do with it now. If anyone has a piece of their opinion or advice I’d appreciate it!

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u/Medium_Effort2567 — 14 hours ago
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Am I bad for keeping a gift card that’s not mine?

Hi 19f here, went to my local shopping centre today after an appointment. While I was there my boyfriend noticed someone dropped a card he thought as a way to litter and get rid of it, I said oh no maybe chase them and ask. As he proceeded to speed walk (it was a bit busy) they were just walking ten times faster. He gives up and comes back and assumes she just used it all and threw it on the ground. He goes to throw it in the trash and I go oh no I’ll keep it then so I just hold it and we leave shortly after and get food.

Just got home and checked the balance, it had the full $50 still loaded on it and I feel horrible but kinda happy at the same time? I mean I just got a free 50 bucks but at the same time did I just steal by accident? It has no name and no account signed up to the card so I really can’t track it back down and we didn’t bother to go to the lost and found on the other side of the shopping centre (at that point we thought it had no value or little value a few bucks at most). I told my mum and she said that’s bad karma to use it but also to get a lottery ticket so I did lmao.

Do I use it? Is that like illegal!?!? Idk what to do with it now. If anyone has a piece of their opinion or advice I’d appreciate it!

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u/Medium_Effort2567 — 14 hours ago