u/MaybeMax356

I’m doing a very chill competition tomorrow with some other guys. They are all under the impression I am a cis male, but I am pre top surgery. This is great and all, but they are hoping to all show up shirtless with our “logo” painted on our chests. This obviously cannot fly. Do I just say I don’t want to or smth? I am pre t and go by my birth name, but pass 95% of the time (don’t tell me I don’t, I pass in both liberal and conservative areas, in the us and not, to cis and trans people). But being pre t and having a female (yet uncommon) name makes me a bit worried about them becoming suspicious. Any ways, we are meeting early afternoon, any thoughts on this? Thanks