u/Material_Search8542

I got sa’ed by a classmate and I don’t know how to proceed

Hey guys this my first time ever posting so please be kind I (F20) was going out to see a guy I study in the same class with, with my friend (F20) we were kind of on a double date with him and his friends and it would be a shame to call it a date even. First of all, we me and my friend had to go on a 20 minute taxi drive to go meet him in another city, when we arrived he pushed his friend towards my friend and decided to walk by my side, normal but kind of weird, second of all we walked for almost 40 minutes where he forcibly held my hand , forcibly took a selfie of us and also tried to choke me (?) yes it was weird to me too and kind of a red flag but i laughed it off so I don’t start sh!t (bad idea) then he got a call from his dad saying he needed him to do something , so he left and I stayed with his friend and my friend we were talking and his friend starting dropping hints about him not being a good person also a liar and a cheater too, i took those thing into consideration we walked for 2 hours nonstop until we reached the bus stop we were planning on leaving because it was 7 pm and we hadn’t eating since 2 pm but his friend insisted we stay and wait for him to return to say our goodbyes i texted the guy on the phone and said :” its late we’re hungry and tired where r u come fast so we can say goodbye and leave” he replied and told me he was close we WAITED OUTSIDE FOR 2 more hours and I literally caught a cold, when he showed up he had borrowed the car from his dad and decided to drive us, before I tell you what happens next a little background check we both come from a 99% muslim country when even a guy and girl standing next to each other would draw looks and whispers and a guy and girl going on a date or showing affection in public would be considered public indecency and would be punished by law, so we decided to be stupid and let him drive us home it was 9 pm then, we were starving and cold and sleepy, he drove us half the way and stopped the car and told me to get off so he can say something to me then he suddenly grabbed be my head and decided to forcefully kiss me i told him no 20 times (yes i counted it was traumatizing) i even pushed slapped and bit him it was horrible he then forcibly used his tongue to push my lips apart thats when i screamed and told him to f off he then opened the door pushed me into the car closed it and started driving like a mad man even his friend told him to stop because the rode was full of cars when we finally arrived he opened the door for me prayed me out and tried to kiss me this time in front of my friend whom pushed him away and told him to f off he then slapped and hit her so I slapped him and we left in a hurry so he can’t follow us (when he forcibly tried to kiss me the first time, his friend told him to stop my friend couldn’t open the car door to help).

When i got home, i told him that what he did was horrible and he wouldn’t dream of me again. I screenshoted the conversation of me describing exactly what happened and him admitting it and apologizing so I can show it to our school or the cops but my guy friend told me that my parents would literally be called the second I tell the cops and if I tried to warn the school they would open an investigation that can jeopardize both our lives in the future and I would be an ah to myself for ruining my future over a dumb mf but I really don’t know what to do please help.

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u/Material_Search8542 — 20 hours ago