u/Material-Nebula-3608

So this morning I was upset about him playing with himself for like forty minutes in bed next to me with his back to me.

So I asked him if he was done yet, and he said he wasn’t aware he was doing anything. He has said before that this is happening when he’s asleep, kind of like sleep walking.

But I said I don’t believe you, because it’s just hard to believe. He was very upset that I said I didn’t believe him. After, I then heard the crying in the bathroom and felt terrible. So I apologized for upsetting him but said it upsets me and I don’t know what to do when it happens.

Any thoughts on how to handle this situation?