u/MatchaTizzz

Problem/goal: Hi guys! I need your advice, so there's this guy I'm in a situationship with and sadly I told him that we should take a break (Because he told me something na naka shokt talaga sa akin) and because of what he did I don't think that I am ready to move forward with him yet especially he didn't told me this after months of talking na. But I was kind of shocked to see how easily he agreed because from my experience and what I see in others, if a guy really likes a girl, he will find a way (like pursuing her more, or trying to give options like just taking a break or something like that).

And after that, his behavior changed, like he's not mean or anything but he replies very formally and sometimes I feel like he doesn't care, like there's no checking in or anything. In short ang cold niya

And before that, he told me that he would wait and if I'm ready again, he would be still be there for me and would wait and support me with whatever achievements and stuff I do, but with the way he's acting now.

Did I made the right decision by letting him go or if there's a chance for us again or if I'm just overthinking it?

Problem/Goal: Am I overreacting if ngayon ko pa nalaman na mag anak yung suitor ko?

So my suitor has been courting me for months and perfect po siya, respectful, gusto ma meet ang parents ko para mag ask formally to court me, and the type of guy na mafafall ka talaga. But then before that tinanong ko na talaga siya if may sabit ba or something tapos tawa lang siya and sinasabi na wala, but then recently sinabi niya na may anak sila nung ex niya pero yung ex niya may bago ng partner and matagal na yun (Di pa daw niya sinabi sa akin kasi at that time meron akong family problem and stress din ako sa school) diko sure if ano ma fefeel kasi part of me is di pa talaga ready sa mga ganyan and gagraduate palang ako (May work na kasi si guy) and knowing myself and my family is di talaga maganda yung ending but I'm at the point where na attached na ako sa kanya and grabe na yung pagka invested ko sa kanya and ang hirap na I let go so I don't know if valid ba yung feeling ko or too blind lang ako.

Di na talaga gumagana yung mind ko sa kakastress sa nangyayari.

Edit: To add lang po, the reason why hindi niya kasama yung baby niya is because nagloko yung babae tapos may ibang pinalit and yung family naman nung girl is nagalit sa suitor ko so ayaw ipa sama/Kita yung bata until recently lang