WIBTA if I didn’t invite my cousin to my wedding?
Posting on a throwaway account… My cousin and I hung out a lot while growing up together in our Hispanic family so I consider him to be very close. Most of my family is in another country, so we naturally saw each other more often than everyone else, especially at major functions. I see my aunt and uncle as a second set of parents. Everyone that lives in this state, including my fiancés family, lives 4+ hours away from each other so it’s hard to actually meet in person which makes every gathering pretty intimate and special. During a gathering a while back, my cousin was meeting my fiancé and his family for the first time along with our bridal party and other close individuals to celebrate a fresh engagement. Friends and family on my fiancés side as well as a few friends from my side heard my cousin make a comment while taking a shot that was very vulgar. The comment had made my fiancé, his family, and several friends uncomfortable which is now resulting in them not wanting to be around him at all. Cousin is now being dubbed the “the creepy cousin”. I had brought up the situation and the comment that was made by my cousin to my father (who is paying for the wedding) and he is adamant on including my cousin, despite my fiancés being adamant on not having him there. I love my cousin and would love to have attend our special day, but I acknowledge that it’s not just my wedding, it is my fiancés wedding too and he shouldn’t feel uncomfortable. So now I must take to the internet for a neutral opinion. WIBTA if we didn’t invite my cousin?