Mom went through my room while I was out getting her Mother's Day gift
I'm so pissed. I didn't want to get her a gift, but I knew that she would guilt-trip me like crazy, so I left my room while she was home. I NEVER do this for this exact reason. Because of this, she has labeled me a miserable loner, but the thing is, I don't mind going out; I love going to the coffee shops, the bookstore, the mall, and the movie theatre near my house. It's just that I don't like being around her! It's also the fact that when I leave my room, I'm met with a barrage of insults, and when I leave the house, my mom "cleans" my room. I don't know what's more frustrating -- the violation of privacy or the fact that she truly believes that I'm stupid enough to think she was truly just "cleaning up." I have her on video entering my room and going through my closet, but if I ask her, she will still vehemently deny that and stick to the cleaning story. I really have to stop letting my guilt cloud my judgment. It doesn't cloud hers! Plus, I don't know what it is about Mother's Day and Father's Day that makes my parents extra psychotic. After this year, hopefully I’m nc, but if not, please remind me to NEVER let guilt or fear drive me to be nice to these demons again!