My (24m) ex bf (21m) jumped into rebound just the day after and I don’t know what to do
My ex bf and I are over since about a month. We have had no contact since, just the first days after I did a check up with him how he was processing it.
But… I recently discovered he has a rebound. A friend of mine sent me the picture of his new boyfriend and my heart was destroyed in seconds. He said that he is almost every night with his new boyfriend since the day after the break up. So he cheated, right? You don’t go sleeping immediately with someone after just a day. So probably he had dated him during OUR relationship.
Well the hard part is that he said to me, in the first days, that this was just a girl friends house he was sleeping at. He lied that, just like he lied to me dozens of times as I discovered after the break up. Friend of mine confirmed that it really is his new bf house…
I don’t know how to handle this. I feel like trash, he saw someone at his work and thought “oh he cute I just dump my current bf suddenly and in a few days” because literally 5 days before we enjoyed each others presence and he bought me tickets for a musical that day.
Don’t know what to ask you but maybe something like advice to get through this and to not feel like trash set aside…