u/ManyBeyond136

So I get along with most feminists but I received a reply from a top 1% commentator feminist woman in the community who insulted me and then quickly deleted it so that no one else could see it but me.

I only received it in my notifications and had no real way of proving it to the mods because they purposefully instantly deleted the comment so no one could see the insult but me and when I tried to bring it up no one believed me

I can't remember their username but their comment literally called me an insult like "stupid jackass" although I can't remember exactly what the insult was

So I wanted to know what to do when feminists are inconsistent with their principles in this way and how to address it by the broader community?