u/ManufacturerThat2013

my boyfriend and i are both 21, and in our relationship hes the top and im the bottom. recently ive wanted to switch things up in bed, not out of any desire to regularly top, but just know what it feel like i guess. my boyfriend was apprehensive at first, but he agreed to eventually let us switch. hes still extremely hesitant first, and his reasoning is the fact that my penis is kinda large, and ever since we started dating (2 years) ive told him through past conversations that the first time bottoming for me was really hard, and hes super scared to endure that. it’s truthfully a little funny to me, because its like seeing me before i knew how to bottom, but i do genuinely take his concerns seriously. i know when something feels right and wrong as a bottom, but i have no clue what to do as a top. how do i make my boyfriends deflowering more comfortable for him and less intimidating