AITH for being angry after my boyfriend when he wasn't interested after I went to the hospital?
I, F37, have been feeling unwell. After a visit to the doctor, I ended up in the emergency room at hospital a few days later because the pain was unbearable, I can't walk without pain or even prepare a simple meal. I told my boyfriend, M40, that I was at the hospital and there is a chance I'll need an operation if the meds don't work. He offered to buy groceries and I said no it's fine as I had enough and his response was ok, hope you feel better.
Since the hospital visit 3 days ago, he's messaged once to ask if the pain meds are working, has not said he'll come and visit or even called me. For context we've been together for 7 years, we don't live together and they journey is about 45 minutes from his house to mine. He has not been working and there are no issues with travelling to see me. I told him that I was angry at the lack of interest and he accused me of trying to start a fight. Should I need to ask him to message me, call me or visit me or am I right to feel anger that he has not been in contact? So AIYTH or should I have more understanding that he doesn't know what to do?