Blocking and ghosting
My partner (BPD) and I were together for two years. After a recent argument, we went three weeks without contact. When we finally started talking again, I found out she had already started dating someone else. This led to more arguments, and she ended up blocking me on FaceTime and WhatsApp.
However, she didn't block me on our private Facebook Messenger channel—a space we created just for the two of us. It’s been a month now. I’ve sent a few voice messages there; she reads them almost immediately, but she never replies.
I’m struggling to understand the logic. Why go through the effort of blocking my number and FaceTime but leave this specific, private channel active just to "read" my messages in silence? Has anyone else experienced this kind of "partial" ghosting?