I matched with this person 4 months ago while traveling. We went on a fun date that lasted 7 hours, then went on our separate ways, nothing physical. She said later that night helped turn around some depression she was having due to a horrible stretch at work, going through a divorce, selling her house, etc. As we’ve talked over the past few months, I felt like she was romanticizing me into someone I’m not.
Now I’m heading to a city with my gym friend in who’s in a competition a few hours away from where she lives. She immediately started pushing for plans, sending sexy pics, wanting to FaceTime in the tub, but I’ve been blowing her off a bit.
I’m not against hooking up, but I want to have fun and some buildup. Not just booking a room and staying in there for two days. I don’t really like planning my itinerary when I travel either, because I just end up doing something different anyways, especially starting the trip with a hostel pub crawl/welcome party.
Not trying to hurt her feelings, but I kind of want to just do my own thing. But she’s already booked a hotel and said I could stay with her, and she’s trying to book some cool hot tub place.
Is what I said enough already?