u/Mammoth-Jicama-3128

for context, i am in my 20s and frequently run into the guys that i have slept with. generally speaking, they are unfriendly even if we said goodbye in a sweet way. is this just a college-aged guy phenomena? are they letting me down easy (though i by no means ever indicate i'd like to see them again) to taste the sea? i would appreciate any insight into their thinking.