My son just told me his gf is pregnant. I’m beside myself. It took me a few days to sit and talk with him because I myself was a teen mom. I didn’t want this for him. He doesn’t have a career yet, he knows what direction he wants to go which I’m grateful he’s motivated. But added stress of a pregnant gf who’s shown red flags already. I fear for him and my family. We’re are very close. It’s myself my partner our 19 yoM, 12yoM, 10yoM, 1 year old babygirl and my mom (grandma) in the house. She only has a mother who truly supports her. No dad in the picture and her stepdad and brother aren’t supportive of her. Her bio dad apparently is not a good person.
I’m just at a loss… my son has us and immediate family’s support. She doesn’t. She isn’t receptive of help or advice.
We’re meeting with her and her mom soon. Rest of her family declined to meet with us. So it’ll be me and partner, son and his gf and her mom.
What do I ask… what do we talk about??
I have so many questions but I don’t want to come off rude, overreacting or controlling. But I need to know what their plans are as my son says her household is not a stable environment and dangerous for a baby.